If you haven’t met her yet, I’d like to introduce you to LaFonduh.
LaFonduh is a lovely girl and she desperately wants to fall in love. She is the:
The Popular Cheerleader
The Unseen Poet
The Quiet Genius and
The Rocker Chick
She is short.
She is tall.
She is gorgeous
and she is plain.
Sadly, she is often
Every Girl.
LaFonduh quickly falls in love
with guys at different schools. It doesn’t take long for LF to attach herself to a guy.
The more sexual stuff she does with a guy, the tighter the grip and the harder LF falls. Kissing, making out, whatever, LF is sure she is ready, certain that this guy is THE one and so she gives a little bit more of herself until she’s given everything away.
When that relationship doesn’t last, LF quickly surveys her school for the available guys. She’s on the prowl again, looking for a new boy to love and so the pattern repeats itself.
If you haven’t noticed, LaFonduh is a piece of tape; a piece of transparent packing tape but honestly she symbolizes what we see all the time as we go out and speak in schools about sex and stuff.
Although LaFonduh is tape, she really exists, if you know what I mean.
And when LF gets dumped, parts of her and that guy are left behind. She’s got some of him on her; he’s got some of her on him. There are tiny pieces of each other still left.
You should see how eager the guys are to get rid of clingy LaFonduh. She has turned
jealous and obsessive. She drives the poor guy crazy! Her whole world revolves around him and he feels like he can’t even breathe!
Recently when we were speaking in a school, one of the teenage guys ripped LF off his arm so fast you could hear the hairs being torn off. He was really hairy and look at what he left on LF. Ew!
And as gross as it is seeing all that hair, honestly, for some students, the residue left behind is far more intense and physical…pregnancy, sexual transmitted diseases and infections.
Hooking up with someone is not as carefree as some would like you to believe.
Sex, making out, really everything in between is a big deal. Kissing, touching, messing around, even doing sexual things with another person it's kind of like tape. It connects people and when a relationship is over, the stuff left behind is emotional…heartbreak, embarrassment,
and regret.
In our next post, I’ll share with you a story, edited for privacy reasons, of what recently happened to a girl who has felt like LaFonduh in real life.
You are worth waiting for. Sex is a big deal. Tell us what you think. Do you have a story and want to share? Write us and leave a comment.
